But you know, this is where its really hard.
As a judge, I have to judge the dance.
We get to know them, and they become family, and their pain is my pain…
I have to judge whats happening on the dance floor.
I went home and I vomited.
Can I just say that it just tells you what kind of a guy he is?
Hes a follow-through person.
We all go through heartbreaking things in life….
This is a huge competition, and I admire him.
I think it shows his work ethic.
Sometimes too, you have to remember, those endorphins help you cope.
And so I think we shouldnt judge him at all.
Before performing his second dance Monday, Van Der Beek spoke directly to the camera about the miscarriage.
Earlier in the season, the actor revealed that he and his wife wereexpecting their sixth child.
We lost the baby, he said Monday.
You never know why these things happen, thats what Ive been telling my kids.
All you know it brings you closer together.
It breaks you open, it opens up your heart… it makes you more human.
Kimberly, I love you.
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