Amber tells EW about sending her mom on a secret mission to find Barnett before walking down the aisle.

Warning: The following post contains spoilers from the season 1 finale ofLove Is Blind.

At least that’s what we see in the show’s season finale.

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“So they took our phones.

I was nervous because I didn’t want to walk down the altar by myself.”

Amber had a reason to be nervous.

Amber wasn’t going to be denied because of technology.

She went old school.

She sent her mom to investigate.

“I sent my mom down to talk to him and she cleared everything up,” Amber says.

“I woke up that morning with like, the biggest pit in my stomach,” he says.

“Is this what I want to do with my life?

Do I really want to get married like this?

Am I making the right decision?”

“He was just fine and ready to go.”

This comes up again later when Amber brings up the mounting costs of the wedding itself.

“He had a lot more student debt than I did!”

And while we’re clearing the air, Barnett doesn’t really go by “Barnett.”

Unless you catch him playing in his local softball league.

“I go by Matt in normal day stuff.

My baseball team used to call me Barnett,” he says.

Love Is Blindis now streaming on Netflix.

The reunion special is set to drop Thursday, March 5 on Netflix and Youtube.